Office is my home, err...is it?

It was one of those usual conversations between colleagues in the office but it raised questions about triggering assumptions based on earlier conversations and then ultimately leading to distrust amongst employees. While the parties sat together to try and resolve the matter, I made a gentle exit with the thought that it was just a case of social interactions getting complex. A little later, an ex-colleague called to say that he is throwing in the towel at his present job. He feels insecurity is ruling over everyday tasks. There is no word of appreciation, absolutely no care from his employer. Undoubtedly, he despises the very thought of heading for work, I could surmise. Yet another casualty of the downturn – how could I help him? Thought, I should spend some time to get more clarity on the situation, I reached out to him.

My doubts were proven right. While my friend was expecting the organization to cheer him up even when the going was extremely tough, he seemed to have been left to fend on his own. With the employee spending close to 12 hours in office, it is but natural to expect ‘care’ from his employer. A quick look at news reports generated in the recent past indicate that organizations are increasingly focusing on growth at the expense of employees instrumental in driving this growth. As someone said, human brain is a social organ. Its physiological and neurological reactions are directly and profoundly shaped by social interactions. A challenge at a professional level might evoke the same response as a challenge at the personal level as the distinction is blurring today.

According to a research done at University of California at Los Angeles, it was found that although a job is often regarded as a purely economic transaction, in which people exchange their labor for financial compensation, the brain experiences the workplace first and foremost as a social system. When people feel betrayed or unrecognized at work — for example, when they are reprimanded, given an assignment that seems unworthy, or told to take a pay cut — they experience it as a neural impulse, as powerful and painful as a blow to the head. Most people who work in companies learn to rationalize or temper their reactions; they “suck it up,” as the common parlance puts it. But they also limit their commitment and engagement. They become purely transactional employees, reluctant to give more of themselves to the company, because the social context stands in their way.

On the other hand when leaders take initiatives to understand their people, make them feel good, clearly communicate what’s expected from employees, give latitude to make decisions, support people’s efforts to build good relationships, and treat the whole organization fairly, it prompts a reward response. Others in the organization become more effective, more open to ideas, and more creative. They notice the kind of information that passes them by when fear or resentment makes it difficult to focus their attention. They are less susceptible to burnout because they are able to manage their stress. They feel intrinsically rewarded.

An organization is today more like an employee’s home where he fosters certainty, each and everyone is treated fairly, caring is a given, and where freedom is not a choice. Every leader or employer should keep in mind that ‘home is where the heart is.’ Where is your employees heart?